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Apr

What to do when your child refuses contact or resists a relationship after the separation and during a divorce?

Parents are stumped when a child who was once loving became defiant and resistant to having any contact with said parent post separation or divorce.  “Parental alienation syndrome” is a term frequently mentioned in family law court, but the complexity of this syndrome often escapes custody lawyers because it is rooted in psychological studies.

An estranged parent will need the legal help of an aggressive divorce lawyer who is experienced in dealing with this specific custody issue. Depending on the situation and the severity of the alienation, the parent may be advised to seek mental health counseling for the child immediately. It is imperative that the estranged parent and his or her attorney understand the psychological contribution of each parent and the child to the manifested alienation.

An experienced divorce attorney may also advise the parent to take swift legal measures such as an emergency custody order, an appointment of minor’s counsel and/or a custody evaluation. Additionally, a custody lawyer can help guide the estranged parent on how to collect and maintain evidence showing that the estrangement stemmed from the other parent’s conduct or statements.

If you are experiencing estrangement or alienation from your children after a separation or during the divorce case, contact our Southbay law office for help.